Dear Jess: My family is thinking about getting a dog, but we’re overwhelmed. Should we get a puppy, adopt a rescue, or work with a breeder? How do we avoid making a mistake?
It’s great you are putting thought into this because the wrong dog can become your biggest headache, while the right dog can bring years of joy. After more than 10 years as a dog trainer, I’ve noticed that the happiest dog owners aren’t necessarily the ones who found the cutest dog. They’re the ones who found the right match.
Finding the right fit
Most people start by looking at breed, size, or an adorable face online. Those things matter, but what matters even more is how a dog’s temperament and energy level fit your lifestyle. A high-energy dog may be perfect for an active family that loves hiking and outdoor adventures. The same dog might be overwhelming in a quieter household. Likewise, a sensitive dog may thrive in a calm environment but struggle in a busy home filled with activity. One of my favorite ways to help clients is before they bring a dog home. Sometimes a quick conversation can help a family avoid a mismatch that could lead to years of frustration for both people and dogs.
The doodle dilemma
Doodles and other designer mixes are incredibly popular, and many make wonderful companions. Unfortunately, their popularity has also attracted plenty of backyard breeders and puppy mills. If you’re considering a doodle or any purebred puppy, ask questions. Look for health testing, transparency, and breeders who care as much about where their puppies are going as they do about selling them. A responsible breeder should be interviewing you, too.
Consider foster care
If you’re looking at rescue dogs, foster-based rescues often provide valuable information about how a dog behaves in a real home environment. Consider fostering first if your situation allows. It’s a wonderful way to learn whether a particular dog is truly the right fit before making a long-term commitment.
Don’t rush the decision
A dog may be part of your family for 10 to 15 years or more. Taking a little extra time to choose thoughtfully can make a tremendous difference. I’ve talked families out of dogs they were convinced were perfect and encouraged them to take a second look at dogs they initially overlooked. Sometimes choosing the right dog is the most important training decision you’ll ever make.
Thinking about adding a dog to your family?
I’d be happy to help you evaluate breeders, rescues, or individual dogs before you commit. Starting with the right match can save a lot of heartache later.
How did you choose your dog? Was it love at first sight, careful research, or pure luck? Share your story in the comments.
Jess Rollins, Pro Dog Trainer | GuidanceDogTraining.com/Discovery | 510-545-3889